Describe how conflict goes through differentiation and integration stages?

Assigned Discussion Questions: after reading all of Chapter 1, think of a specific conflict situation you experienced or observed. Analyze the situation using concepts from this chapter.  

Did the conflict interaction have uncontrolled escalation or avoidance?
Describe how conflict goes through differentiation and integration stages?
What moves and countermoves did the involved parties use and did these moves affect the course of interaction in the conflict?
Did the conflict interaction change the relationship?
What was the climate of the situation and how did it affect the conflict interaction?